Being at a distance with someone you want to be around with is not an easy thing. But sometimes, it happens and it needs to be accepted and experienced.
First and foremost, what should be in such a situation is a common goal. It must be mandatory. And the goal is the opportunity to be together sooner or later in real time. If this goal is not, then the relationship is empty. They can last a long time, but sooner or later they will end. People just get tired. The man certainly. And if there is no such tangible goal in time, it needs to be determined. Month, half a year or year. Does it happen more than a year? It happens. A question of patience. Is it enough? There are those who have enough. No, someone and all his life so lives, but this is a very specific relationship and call them just a relationship, somehow the mouth does not open. Although, it happens so.
The second, no less important, is what should happen - the relationship should be and even develop. We need to communicate and do some work together. Go to the store, walk, watch movies together. Now the means of communication allow all this to be done. This should be used. We need to say more pleasant things to each other. Over time, people begin to wean from each other and that emotional thread that was beginning to dwindle. Man becomes somehow distant and not his own. With every day it's harder to say compliments from the heart, because inwardly you stop feeling and feeling the person. Again, all of course depends on the abundance of feelings, but the longer a person can not see, the less emotion remains. This is natural.
And you do not need to turn your life into a "waiting room". It makes no sense to sit in front of the window and grieve. It is necessary to live a full life: to communicate with people, to attend events, to form positive emotions. And do not get hung up on the fact that he is somewhere far away. No need to be jealous. If the psyche is not stable and there is unreasonable jealousy, then such relationships simply do not fit. It is necessary to accept, release and not to worry. Do not torture with constant calls, messages and arrange for shadowing one after another. A relationship at a distance is a test. Not everyone can go through it, so they are simply counter-indicative to someone.
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