Everyone wants to protect themselves from others, from bad relationships, negative emotions, bad memories...
One of such method of protection is the psychological masks that create people in their life. Surely you've noticed that very different people perceive you exactly the same. This is no accident! Wearing a mask, you have a certain expression, and you are programming people at a particular attitude. Accordingly, they are beginning to perceive us so. We are so accustomed to accept this expression and wear a mask that cease to notice it. But it is clearly visible to others. And all their future behavior will be based on that perception of us. Social factors play a big role in the fitting and wearing masks. Imagine two people who know each other. They look in the eye, smile at each other, showing positive emotions, the true intentions are not good thought and their real attitude. This is because that person wants to please and seem good. This is a natural desire! And he puts on a mask of fear. Fear that he/she will think about what to say. Wanting to please others, a man wears a mask, literally it ceases to be what it really is. Changing the mask, the man begins to lose himself, and began to play quite forgets who he really is.

Do the masks have their positive side? Of course! For example, I wear a mask with some qualities which I would like to develop in myselve, but which are not so big in my character, and begin to wear it. Over time, I notice that the features that I put on the mask, are becoming more and more often appear in my life.
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