It is the real marriage life

That year, she met a guy all of a sudden and was attracted by him. She nearly developed affair with him. He was humorous, smart and witty. Maybe his marriage life was so dull, or maybe she lost her passion. She felt something special about him, and her passion was provoked again. In the past few years, she didn’t care much about her appearance, outlook, and didn’t often hang out but stayed on the sofa whole day watching TV. After pumped into him, she looked marvelous and her face was aglow again.

Her husband seemed realize her changes, and asked her rationally, “Do you recently meet someone who really appreciate you?”
She nodded.
He said, “That is great! But beware of the extent, don’t go too far.”
It doesn’t sound like a conversation given by a husband.

She was curious and asked, “What does it mean by “extent”? How about we go that far and I want to divorce?”
He replied, “No way! Otherwise I wouldn’t have talked to you.”
He added, “Many couple experienced similar situation as we did. This is so called marriage. If our passion lasts forever, would it be too tiring? We are acquainted and so familiar with each other, would there be any passion? So, there is nothing going wrong in our marriage, but how people perceive marriage – immature. The guy who you encountered brings you passion and emotional impact, so you think he is great, but we are doomed. It is totally wrong. If you really choose to get married with him, years passed by, you would experience again what we are experiencing now in the future, even worse. Unlike us, we got our lovely son, our warm house and we are family. How about you and him? He got a daughter and you got a son. You two are from two separate family. Once the passion faded, you two became strangers, you would regret the decision you made today. So, if you really feel like being with him, just go ahead.

After listening to him, she got a click! She hugged him tightly and started to cry. After that, she has never said any words regarding to divorce.
Marriage is supposed to be “not that passionate”. It is a cooperation which base upon responsibility and liability. Don’t expect it would fill with lots of excitement and romance. Once you expect too much, you would be difficult to satisfy. Once you become dissatisfied, your marriage will never last long. It all depends on your maturity.
Many people cannot stand the apathetic marriage life and opt for a new and exciting life at the expense of their responsibility.
It is commonly encountered by many couples. Please always treasure the one right in front of you!

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